The empirical relationship between the futures price $F$ and the spot price $S$ is
$$
F = S e^{b\tau}
$$
where $\tau$ is the time to expiry, and $b$ is the empirical basis, i.e. the number that makes the equation hold, given by
$$
b = \frac{1}{\tau}\log(F/S)
$$
It can be compared to the theoretical basis,
$$
b_{\rm theor} = r - q
$$
where $r$ is the funding rate and $q$ is the expected dividend rate to expiry, but in general you will have $b\neq b_{\rm theor}$ (due to transaction costs, regulation, taxes and other limits to arbitrage).
The percentage futures return can be expressed as
$$
\frac{\delta F}{F} \approx \frac{\delta S}{S} + \tau \cdot \delta b + b \cdot \delta\tau
$$
or, with $r_f=\delta F/F$ and $r_s = \delta S/S$,
$$
r_f\approx r_s+ \tau \cdot \delta b + b \cdot \delta\tau
$$
The futures delta is, as you said,
$$
\Delta_F = e^{b\tau}
$$
which is, in general, less than one if the futures are in backwardation (i.e. $b < 0$) which is true about 75% of the time for SET50 futures. However, as you correctly point out, when the spot moves by 10 points, the futures tend to move by more than 10 points, not less (a rough calculation suggests that the futures move by around 10.5 points for every 10 point move in the underlier).
If you want to hedge the futures by holding an offsetting amount of the spot, one option is to hold $\Delta_F$ of the spot. Alternatively you can take into account the comovement of the futures and the spot, and compute the hedge ratio $\beta$ to minimize the square of $r_f - \beta \cdot r_s$ (note that here we are talking in percentage terms, rather than absolute terms - to convert the hedge ratio back to absolute terms, you should multiply by $\Delta_F$, i.e. you would hold $\beta\cdot\Delta_F$ of the spot for each unit of the futures).
$$
\begin{align}
\beta & = \frac{{\rm Cov}(r_f,r_s)}{{\rm Var}(r_s)} \\
& \approx \frac{{\rm Var}(r_s) + \tau \cdot {\rm Cov}(r_s, \delta b)}{{\rm Var}(r_s)} \\
& = 1 + \tau \frac{{\rm Cov}(r_s, \delta b)}{{\rm Var}(r_s)} \\
& = 1 + \tau \cdot \rho_{b,s} \frac{\sigma_b}{\sigma_s}
\end{align}
$$
where $\rho_{b,s}$ is the correlation between changes in the empirical basis and changes in the spot, and $\sigma_b$, $\sigma_s$ are the volatilities of the basis and the spot.
This tells us that the hedge ratio will be greater than one if changes in the spot are positively correlated with changes in the empirical basis, and less than one if changes in the spot are negatively correlated with changes in the empirical basis.
I measure a daily correlation of around 0.05 between changes in the spot and changes in the basis, indicating that you should over-hedge the futures with the spot, as opposed to a hedge ratio of 1 that you would use if you didn't take spot/basis correlation into account.