$\lambda$ is independent of the maximum sharpe ratio. The maximum sharpe ratio portfolio will give you a combination of the risk free asset and the tangency portfolio. Then your risk aversion just makes you choose the combination between these two assets. See picture below.
The blue line is the efficient frontier with short-sales allowed. The red-curve is the efficient frontier without short sales. The purple line is the combination between the $r_f$ and the tangency portfolio. Then if your $\lambda$ is high you are investor 1, and tilt more towards risk free. If $\lambda$ is low you are investor 2 and tilt more towards tangency.