Let $N_t \sim \text{Poisson}(\lambda t)$ and $M_t \sim \text{Poisson}(\theta \lambda t)$.
We know that if $N$ and $M$ were independent, $dNdM = 0$ using polarization identity. We also know that $(dN)^2 = dN$; but now that these two processes are correlated, how can we calculate $dNdM$ ?
I though about polarization identity and putting it in differential notations and given that $N+M$ is also a Poisson process, we can write \begin{align*} dNdM &= \frac{1}{2}\left[ \left(d(N+M)\right)^2 - (dN)^2 - (dM)^2 \right] \\ &= \frac{1}{2}\left[ d(N+M) - dN - dM \right] \end{align*} But how can we calculate $d(N+M)$?