The comments already give links to many top answers and articles outlining the answer. Here's the summary:
The Black-Scholes formula for European-style call options is $$C = Se^{-qT}\Phi(d_1)-Ke^{-rT}\Phi(d_2).$$
The option delta (sensitivity to changes in the stock price) is $$\Delta=\frac{\partial C}{\partial S} =e^{-qT}\Phi(d_1).$$
Firstly, the delta of an option cannot be the probability of anything: it can exceed one, depending on the cost of carry $q$ (think of long-dated deep ITM currency options).
You can show that $\Phi(d_2)$ is the risk-neutral probability of the event $\{S_T\geq K\}$. Thus, a few people call $\Phi(d_2)$ the probability of ending up in the money. It couldn't be further from the truth. This number doesn't tell you where the asset will likely be at maturity. Risk-neutral valuation is a beautiful and very convenient pricing tool, but it makes no predictions about the future distribution of stock prices.
You can show that $\Phi(d_1)$ is the (risk-neutral) probability of the event $\{S_T\geq K\}$ associated to a different numéraire. That's even more technical and even less related to where the underlying is going to end up in the real world.
Because $\Delta$ is easily observable on any trading platform, and because $d_1=d_2+\sigma\sqrt{T}\overset{?!}{\approx} d_2$, some people may suggest that delta proxies the probability of exercise. As you now know, this is just wrong and bad. As @Jan said this is a "red flag in a quant interview".
What you can do: You can interpret $Se^{-qT}\Phi(d_1)$ as price of an asset-or-nothing and $e^{-rT}\Phi(d_2)$ as price of a cash-or-nothing option, or as the aforementioned risk-neutral probabilities.