Suppose that I have a model for implied volatility surface and want to figure out required recalibration frequency based on historical quotes. Since I have a large range of strikes and tenors over a long period of time I need to somehow automate this process, i.e. I need a computable metric rather than "ahh it seems pretty close to market".
What kind of statistical metric will make the most sense? I'm thinking about the mean of percentage differences between market and model quotes, i.e. the mean value of $$100\cdot\frac{\sigma^{market}-\sigma^{model}}{\sigma^{market}}$$ over the entire volatility surface, however the mean over the entire surface can be quite misleading as it will not capture large single outliers on a big enough surface and will cancel out differences with similar magnitude but opposite signs. Nevertheless I can't see a better single metric to assess an overall surface fit.
How much sense does an average percentage difference over the entire surface make to assess the quality of a fit? Is there a better metric? Any help will be appreciated.
UPD: Does it make more sense to pick a squared sum of differences across all tenors and strikes $$\sum_{K,T}(\sigma^{market}-\sigma^{model})^2$$ as a metric?