Your equation (2), $dr_t = (b+\beta t)dt + \sigma dW_t$, is a short hand version of:
$$r_t=r_0+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}(b+\beta h)dh+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\sigma dW_h$$
Ito Process is defined as:
$$X_t=X_0+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}a(X_h,h)dh+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}b(X_h,h) dW_h$$
with $a()$ and $b()$ being some square-integrable functions of $t$ and $X_t$: therefore $r_t$ is an Ito process (with $a=(b+\beta t)$ and $b=\sigma$, obviously the two $b$s are different, to make it easy, I will use $\mu$ below instead of your $b$).
Ito's lemma states that any smooth, twice-differentiable function of time and the Ito process $X_t$, i.e. $F(t, X_t)$, will be governed by the following equation:
$$F(X_t,t)=F(X_0,t_0)+\int_{h=0}^{h=t} \left( \frac{\partial F}{\partial t}+\frac{\partial F}{\partial X}*a(X_h,h) + 0.5\frac{\partial^2 F}{\partial X^2}*b(X_h,h)^2 \right)dh+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\left(\frac{\partial F}{\partial X}b(X_h,h)\right)dW_h$$
If we want to use Ito's lemma explicitly, the trick is to set $F(X_t, t)$ to $F(r_t,t):=r_t e^{\beta t}$ and apply the lemma to this expression, as follows:
$$r_te^{\beta t}=F(r_0,t_0)_{=r_0}+\int_{h=0}^{h=t} \left( \frac{\partial F}{\partial t}_{=\beta r_h e^{\beta h}}+\frac{\partial F}{\partial r}_{=e^{\beta h}}*a(r_h,h) + 0.5\frac{\partial^2 F}{\partial r^2}_{=0}*b(r_h,h)^2 \right)dh+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\left(\frac{\partial F}{\partial r}_{=e^{\beta h}}b(r_h,h)\right)dW_h=\\=r_0+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\left(\beta r_h e^{\beta h}+e^{\beta h}\beta(\mu- r_h)\right)dh+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\left(e^{\beta h} \sigma\right)dW_h=\\=r_0+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\left(e^{\beta h}\beta\mu\right)dh+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\left(e^{\beta h} \sigma\right)dW_h$$
Now, to get the solution for $r_t$, the final step is simply to divide both sides by $e^{\beta t}$, to isolate the $r_t$ term on the LHS, which gives:
$$r_t=r_0e^{-\beta t}+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\left(e^{\beta(h-t)}\beta\mu\right)dh+\int_{h=0}^{h=t}\sigma e^{\beta(h-t)} dW_h$$
What they did on Quantpie is less "mechanical" and probably more elegant: probably what an interviewer would want to see in an interview :) But I sympathize with "mechanical" approaches, I was always more of a mechanical guy myself, never an elegant one :)